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First Person: A Family's Best Friend to the End

A Patch reader remembers Scooter, a dog whose life began and ended in Kensington.

 

 

By Bill Trott

In a few weeks, when the weather turns warm, the squirrels will be running around our Kensington back yard with impunity. Scooter won’t be there to chase them away.

After almost 11 years of diligent work to keep that back yard squirrel-free, Scooter had to be put to sleep on Feb. 25 due to kidney failure. We knew it would be rough; we just didn’t know how rough.

Popular lore in our household has it that my daughter’s first complete sentence was, “Can we get a dog?” and her second was, “Can we, can we, please?” She lobbied hard for 10 years and we finally relented and got Scooter – half Schnauzer, half poodle and all sweetheart – primarily because we had read that Schnoodles don’t shed.

He quickly became the fifth member of our family and the running joke was that he was my favorite child.

Scooter was a little dog with a big dog attitude, a people-pleaser with an appreciation of the little things in life. If you asked him if he wanted to take a walk, he would react as if he’d won the lottery.

When he passed away, my daughter, son, wife and I each made a list of our favorite memories of him and the things that made Scooter Scooter.

My daughter recalled a couple of instances involving other animals he encountered in his fenced-in territory – a fight with a raccoon late one night and the way he sat next to an injured rabbit without bothering it. She also liked the manic way he ran around the house after a bath and how he would bark jealously whenever someone was getting a hug and he wasn’t involved.

My son came to appreciate the neighborhood walks they took together and will never forget how Scooter would sit in his lap on the morning drive to school. And, of course, there was “how much he loved all of us more than anything – except maybe food.”

Scooter showed extra devotion to my wife and she recalled how he would follow her around the house, even into the bathroom, and keep her company as she worked in her home office. She also noted the jaunty, slightly angled gait he had on walks.

For me, I’ll always remember how Scooter would nudge me to let me know that petting time wasn’t quite over and the variety of growls and barks he had for other dogs who dared walk past our house. Sometimes I would see him sitting perfectly still in the backyard for several minutes at a time, looking as if he were in deep contemplation (what could he be thinking about, I would wonder). Most of all, I’ll always remember how he never lost his inherent puppy-ness.

I’ve now reached a point where I can talk about (but apparently not write about) Scooter without choking up. I mentioned to a friend that I was afraid I was acting as if I were the first person ever to have lost a pet.

“Well, you’re the first one to lose Scooter,” she said.

 

Have favorite memories of a pet? Post them in comments.

 

Note: Bill Trott is the husband of a Patch senior regional editor. 

Related Topics: family dog, losing a pet, and schnoodle

Donna R. Savage

3:32 pm on Saturday, March 9, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Dogs and (in my case) cats are truly family members. Over the years we have had 2 other pairs of cats, and their loss was devastating to us, even though it was we who decided to "put them to sleep" when it was clear that was the most humane thing to do. It sounds like Scooter had a good and happy and loving life, and he gave you back lots of love and happiness. No one could wish for more -- for humans or pets.

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whitney eldridge

8:05 am on Sunday, March 10, 2013

Aw, now you've got me all teary.

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Ol' Man Reed

1:02 pm on Sunday, March 10, 2013

If you need to choke up, fine. But now you've got me and Whitney Eldridge messed up. When I make it to Kensington (consider yourself warned), we'll visit Scooter's grave and then we'll visit a tavern. Damn.

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bct

2:39 pm on Sunday, March 10, 2013

OMR, by all means, let's.

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Lisa Rossi

9:25 am on Monday, March 11, 2013

What a wonderful tribute. We recently lost a pet (more than a year ago) and it's still hard for me to talk about it -- there are so many family memories wrapped up in a family pet!

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Maria Fusco

10:27 am on Monday, March 11, 2013

Nice. Really nice. Thanks.
(and tavern sounds fun)... Scooter prompted memories to come :D!

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Viviane Pescov

11:14 am on Monday, March 11, 2013

I feel the pain you and yours are going through with the passing of Scooter your Best & Loyal Friend! I once and through the years had 4 Beagles and I don't call them dogs and remember them like my Best & Loyal Friends! Each of them had a different personality which made them unique, fun and wonderful! How I wish that " Humans" were as friendly and caring as our Furryfriends: the world would be a better place to live in!

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